Have a hard time moving on from that last play? You’re not the only one.
I’m watching US Team Todd Rogers and Phil Dalhausser lose to the Brazilians 4-10. The ref made a bogus 4 hits call and a usually cool-headed Todd Rogers overheated.

Todd can’t get his head back in the game. The announcer attributed the last 6 unforced errors to Todd’s “road rage.” And this is an Olympian. A highly skilled player deemed the “Best Defensive Player” in the FIVB. One little play has completely changed the game for the Americans.
Why am I telling you this? Because as a coach, I’ve spent at least 60% of a season coaching mental toughness. Mental toughness helps players get passed errors and poor ref calls, and win games. As the announcers keep repeating, “Todd needs to clear his head and focus on his game.” If a key player cannot get passed one error, it will snowball, just like it did with Todd Rogers.
The game just ended 10-21.
I know what you’re thinking, “If Todd Rogers can’t do it, how am I supposed to do it?” And to that I say, for one, this situation is an anomaly. Todd Rogers is a rock of a volleyball player – emotionless, strong. And, second, it’s not about how physically tough or skilled you are, it’s about your confidence, your mental toughness. Can you make an error and not dwell on it? Can the ref make a poor call and effect your entire game?
Check out this article on mental toughness. Show it to your team.
Here’s what I do: Practice drills that require your team to come back from a deficit. Put them in unfamiliar situations frequently. Help them focus on the game as a whole and not individual plays. Have teammates help build player confidence.
Oh, and in case you were wondering. Todd and Phil just came back and won the match. Making this their 9th FIVB gold medal this season (never done before). Todd’s comments, “I lost in that second match but really came back in the third. I let it go and that’s what true champions do.”
